Mourinho said: “Everybody has a responsibility in the final, everybody – me, Sir Alex, the players, referee Mr Bennett and his assistants.
“I will be very sad and disappointed if the final is not a good event, a fair event, without problems, with a good winner and proud loser.
“I want to win but Man Utd want to win. Chelsea gave a good example of how to behave when we lost the Premiership crown.
“I would be disappointed if some of the players were diving or trying to get others red-carded, I would be very disappointed with that.”